Thinkin' About... Lingerie
Today I'm thinking about lingerie. Haven't thought much about it, actually, until lately. Well, of course there are always decisions to be made about lingerie: do I need new undies? how thrashed ARE my bras, anyway? and things of that nature. But the really sexy, seductive kind of lingerie? Not even on my radar.
About 20 years ago, a co-worker of mine told me how her husband liked for her to dress up in a garter belt and stockings, etc., to "spice things up" in their love life. I was a young woman at the time and I remember thinking that her husband must be some kind of pervert, asking his wife to do such a thing. I mean, really!! It was just inconceivable to me, at that time, that decent women wore such things for their men.
Fast forward 20+ years, and I'm spending time with a man who, 'lo and behold, says that he would love to see me in a garter belt and stockings. To say I was surprised is the understatement of the year. Let's not even get into the whole issue of the fact that my body is, in my opinion, WAYYY past its prime. Here is this hottie who wants to see me in sexy lingerie. After my first gasp of surprise, I thought about it, and started to consider the possibility. Just consider it, mind you. Actually doing it was a whole other matter.
I need to backtrack here for a minute and confess one thing. Years ago, I actually bought a garter belt because I thought it would be nice, if I was ever involved with a man who liked that sort of thing, to wear sexy lingerie for him. Note: it never happened. It never even came up in conversation all those years, with any man I was with. I certainly wasn't raising the issue if HE wasn't, right? How embarrassing!!
But now I had a chance to actually see what it would be like, and with someone who would actually appreciate it. Did I go for it? Absolutely! I've even been shopping at stores that specialize in this sort of thing, and it's really, really fun! I feel sexy, attractive, and yes, years younger.
I'm curious about other women out there who have a) wanted to wear lingerie for their man but are too shy to bring it up, or b) have done this regularly and weren't the least bit intimidated, or c) think it's gross. And everything in between, of course.
About 20 years ago, a co-worker of mine told me how her husband liked for her to dress up in a garter belt and stockings, etc., to "spice things up" in their love life. I was a young woman at the time and I remember thinking that her husband must be some kind of pervert, asking his wife to do such a thing. I mean, really!! It was just inconceivable to me, at that time, that decent women wore such things for their men.
Fast forward 20+ years, and I'm spending time with a man who, 'lo and behold, says that he would love to see me in a garter belt and stockings. To say I was surprised is the understatement of the year. Let's not even get into the whole issue of the fact that my body is, in my opinion, WAYYY past its prime. Here is this hottie who wants to see me in sexy lingerie. After my first gasp of surprise, I thought about it, and started to consider the possibility. Just consider it, mind you. Actually doing it was a whole other matter.
I need to backtrack here for a minute and confess one thing. Years ago, I actually bought a garter belt because I thought it would be nice, if I was ever involved with a man who liked that sort of thing, to wear sexy lingerie for him. Note: it never happened. It never even came up in conversation all those years, with any man I was with. I certainly wasn't raising the issue if HE wasn't, right? How embarrassing!!
But now I had a chance to actually see what it would be like, and with someone who would actually appreciate it. Did I go for it? Absolutely! I've even been shopping at stores that specialize in this sort of thing, and it's really, really fun! I feel sexy, attractive, and yes, years younger.
I'm curious about other women out there who have a) wanted to wear lingerie for their man but are too shy to bring it up, or b) have done this regularly and weren't the least bit intimidated, or c) think it's gross. And everything in between, of course.
posted by nobaddays_in_sd | 9:34 PM
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